Tuesday, March 22, 2016

Jolin Tsai -" 不一樣又怎樣 We're All Different, Yet the Same."



On March 25th and 26th, in Atlantic City, NJ, Jolin Tsai a Taiwanese, singer songwriter, will perform two shows at the Borgata Hotel and Casino.  Let’s all get out and welcome her to the Tri-state area and show our appreciation for the support that she gives to the LGBT community throughout the world.

This tour features her recent release: PLAY.  So many of her hits in Asia; I’m Not Yours, Miss Trouble, Play, and the song, 不一樣又怎樣 (We are all Different, Yet the Same) are included in the album. Tsai’s studio performance is lyrically and emotionally brilliant.

Fortunately, my husband helps me understand the Mandarin Chinese lyrics and when he is not available to help with a troubling phrase Google has some great translations available. (In case you are interested in translating some of her lyrics for yourself.) Tsai’s assertion that when two people mutually love one another such a bond and only be positive. “Their lives turned extraordinary when in the same bed.” Who or what gives anyone the right to judge this love once it has sparked?

From a young age we are all taught that this mate we seek after is to be an opposite of sex. By the time I was 8 years of age I felt different. I knew I liked boys. When out with my sister and mother on Cape Cod we would sometimes see two men hand in hand or publicly show affection with a kiss. I would feel something that I quite could not recognize but it would be driven away when I would hear my mother say, “Oh what a shame. They are such good looking guys.” I fought my true feelings for many years and told myself I was straight, but I could no longer deny my feelings. Deep inside denying my true self was literally killing me.

In our world today homosexuality is no longer viewed as such a monstrosity. Still homosexuals face inequality, slander, abuse, and hate. No matter who a person loves or marries it is still hard to give of oneself to another. Tsai expresses this within the lyrics, “It is blood and sweat” and “The significant other turned into (their respective) spouses, leaving behind an out of an ordinary legacy.” When my lover and I married last year our differences give us our uniqueness; the union gives us our power, strength, and hope. How can a feeling such as the love that two people share for one another be considered anything but BEAUTIFUL. Who is god, religion, the president, the Pope, or anyone to tell someone who they can love or marry? Love is a feeling. It is natural and it happens Hate groups hide behind their fear of difference with ignorance and intolerance. 

Tsai is sending a message with the song, We are all Different Yet the Same, that no matter who is expressing love it is still a sacrament an energy that grows into the strongest of emotions. Love has the power to unite worlds, stop wars, end hate, violence, and suffering.  Jolin’s song has a powerful message teaching that it is time to accept and recognize the beauty and strangeness of love. We are not asking you to understand homosexuality or to try homosexuality. All we ask is for the chance to let us be ourselves, love who we want to love, and live in harmony with one another.

Most of all please stop using God as an excuse to deny any being love.  Let’s extend our hearts to Jolin Tsai on March 25th and 26th in Atlantic City, NJ. She will be on stage performing her best for her fans in the Tri-state area these nights.


Tri-state LGBT Community, be ready dance the night away in support of this beautiful woman’s efforts of bringing tranquility to our community! If any country (not just LGBT community) should understand the message in the lyrics to this song it is ours. The USA is a country that prides itself on being truly different, yet the same.                                                                                                                                    SHARE.

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